So, this woman at work is mad at me for asking someone else a question about something that is her responsibility.
I said so.
I wasn’t all that diplomatic or calm.
I was upset, too.
I can’t remember that I should have asked her about this particular thing. The boundaries and lines aren’t that sharp in my office. I am still working out getting completely financially separated from the “marital home” and retirement account. My X is scarring my daughter daily with his thoughtless conduct, work has been brutal time and content wise…
I wasn’t very PC, but I did talk to her directly, and I did apologize.
She had made a big deal at a meeting about going directly to the person you have a beef with instead of around their back. Then she told my friend about how mad she was at me.
That’s when I asked to talk with her alone.
Now she has “unfriended” me on Facebook.
Unfortunately, her passive-aggressive behaviors are very familiar to me….
I’M THAT WAY.
Was that way, I should say. It’s very shitty to be on the other end of that, and I get it now. I’m going to try to change.
Un-friended, un-wifed, un-homeownered.