You know, as a follow up to my last post, I do feel softer toward the two (current) people on my list. I have one other on the list that I can think of, off the top of my head, but he hasn’t been in my life bugging me for about ten years. I even told my X that he (my X), had supplanted that other guy.
A list of only three is small. Am I right?
Sheldon Cooper has 61 people on his “mortal enemies” list:
Not that he’s someone to compare yourself to. If you fancy yourself in the “normal” range.
I just sense that even since I’ve broken through this bottleneck, it is going to take a while to sort out more fully, so I’m hoping I don’t have a run-in with one of them in the meantime. I
might most definitely would still say a bunch of nasty things if face-to-face. That’s right there on the surface, but so is cutting them the tiniest bit of slack. And, not in a pittying, judgmental way, a real way.
On the flip side, I’m sure I’m on their lists and maybe I’m on more than theirs?
What do you think? Do you know that you’re on someone’s list? Do you care?
How long is your list?